Romantic Date

"Romantic date" is the most popular query in the love category. In Chinese metaphysics, love and relationships are described by special stars: some draw people together and create harmony, others separate them and bring loneliness. So choosing a day for a date is above all about finding "love stars" and avoiding "loneliness stars".

What the query covers:

• a first date or meeting someone you met online;
• a romantic dinner, a walk or a getaway for two;
• celebrating an anniversary or Valentine's Day;
• declaring your feelings;
• going out somewhere you hope to meet your love;
• bringing romance back into a long-term relationship.

When to use a different query:

• making up after a quarrel or talking through problems: "restoration of relations";
• a marriage proposal, an engagement or discussing the wedding: "wedding discussion, engagement";
• registering a marriage or the wedding itself: "marriage";
• breaking up: "breakup, divorce";
• meeting friends: "meeting with friends, going on a visit".

How the Calendar rates the day. For this query the stars matter most. The day is supported by the Flower of Romance, the Wizard of Love, Harmony of the Spouse House, Three Harmonies in the House of Spouse, the Star of Heavenly Happiness, Personal Harmony and the Day of Three Harmony. Among the lunar mansions, Bow, Net and Guardian are favourable. The day is weakened by the Lonely Day, the Star of Loneliness, the Lonely Luan, the Separating Day, Destruction in the Day, the Loveless Punishment Day and Calamity Sha. Among the lunar mansions, Basket, Stomach and Void are unfavourable.

Tip. For a date the personal factor matters a lot. Personal Harmony and the Flower of Romance are calculated from your Bazi chart, so connect your Personal Calendar. If you know your partner's date of birth, check the day against their chart too: the best day is one that suits you both. And don't forget the hour, because a lucky hour to start the meeting strengthens the day.